Meetings are a fantastic use of time in which to collaborate, disseminate information, build a team, and be productive… except that is, when they aren’t. I’ll bet that most of us have been in more useless meetings than useful ones, and not to point fingers, but a lot of times the leader is to blame.
Or are they? Ca
n they be blamed for a blather-mouth employee, or an over-bearing one? No, but when a leader lets them ruin a meeting then yes, the leader is to blame. Here are some of the strong directives from the Corner Office blog on controlling highly charged meetings.
“The Setup” – This is a great tip to set the tone for the meeting, as well as putting us in a strong position. At the beginning we should explicitly explain what the meeting will cover, what we expect from the participants, and what we don’t want to happen. As the Corner Office blog explains:
“We’re going to determine our product’s value proposition to customers, but we’re not going to sit here and wordsmith it to death; we’ll do that offline.”
“Channel Useful Debate” – Debate is good, but only as long as it stays useful. If we sense that a debate is going off-topic or getting bogged down, we need to speak up and bring the discussion to a halt. Then when we have the floor, we summarize both sides, and get a consensus. Once things are back on track, we can move on to the next item, or if more debate is needed, at least now it’s focused.
“Table Useless Debate” – This is a point we hammer on a lot in this blog. Tangents, divergent points, useless debates are meeting killers and time wasters. However, if we’ve clearly stated the point of the meeting, we can dismiss a runaway topic, or if it’s a good tangent point, record it and schedule another meeting for it later.
How do you corral a runaway meeting? Do you use a heavy hand or a light touch? Tell us about your methods in a comment.